some wisdom from my brother

In an attempt to modify my own behavior I asked him for some help. He told me to ask myself why I'm doing what I'm doing, and what I'm looking for or hoping to find. When he told me that, I regretted calling him from the conference room with the glass walls and wished I'd gone for the one with the fogged walls. Both my brothers are good at asking me hard questions and making me think about things I don't want to. He says if I keep watching the rear view mirror, I'm going to miss what's ahead. I think he's right.